My girlfriend is bored of me what should i do?

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Im just curious about this. I want to know how i would tell if my girlfriend was getting bored of me.
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AND when I ask her about it she says that nothing is wrong and that she never wants me to leave her and everything is fine. She takes a while to reply to text messages or facebook chat messages. When we are in person she seems very affectionate and much more attentive. When we aren't though, she seems distant like she doesn't seem as interested.
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Even more additional details lol: Please explain how I would fix this if she was bored of the relationship.

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well has she made any gestures that make her seem bored?

ask her about it.
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If I'm in a relationship, I wonder about this also. Usually, I look for a few things.

1) Conversations - When you guys talk, is it always you trying to spark something to talk about? If it's always you, it could be a sign that she is bored, but it could also be a sign that she's concerned about something. It's completely up to you to figure out which one it is.

2) Assertiveness - Are you always the one asking to meet up? Does she ask to meet up with you? Are you always the first one to take action into something? I do think that in a healthy relationship, both you and your partner have an equal level of assertiveness. This, of course, is just my opinion, though. Certain people would argue that guys should always be the one making the moves and the girl should just be taking the backseat, but I disagree with this.

3) When making love - Does it feel like you're the only one enjoying? No, seriously. I do think that if a girl is bored, she's usually apathetic about the entire situation and shows no pleasure.

Anyway, those are some of the few things that you can consider. There's probably a lot more things you can think of, but hopefully I got you off on the right track.

Good luck!
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Sounds like you need assistance!  I will answer this in steps.

1) Check your girlfriend's pulse.  She may not be ignoring you if she is dead.

2) If she is alive, ask her is she is getting bored.

3) If her response is "no", congratulations!  She is probably not bored!  My work here is done!  If she says "yes", please continue to step 4.

4) Your girlfriend is a bear in disguise.  Do not panic.  Look around for a window.

5) Jump out that window as fast as you can, and don't stop running until you can't feel your legs.

6) Find a bear out in the woods and have him teach you karate.  Karate is the only way to defeat a bear girlfriend once and for all.

7) Once you have mastered every karate in the world, confront your bear girlfriend and challenge her to a duel after school at three thirty on the blacktop with the water fountain.

8) All of your fellow third grade classmates will go "ooooooohhhh!!!!"

9) Punch one of your classmates in the face, just to show that you're dead serious and won't take any of this fooling around nonsense because you're a flippin' MAN

10) At the beginning of the fight, punch the bear so hard in the beak that it explodes, revealing the true human on the inside.  She will be a masterpiece.

11) Your (now real) girlfriend will thank you for vanquishing the monster she was living inside.  Now go get ice cream with her, you stallion!
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Hey Justin, it seems like maybe your chat skills are just under par that's all and yeah it matters not but it does so ye sand no as you said in person is great so, so plus one. She's said she'll stay and all that so this is going places. that being said step into something new try things not with her but showing her that you can be different and trust me it will uh help you know ;) so yeah girls love- that ****. Rock on man. BOOM!
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Spot on Carlo.

Those are the typical signs of boredom in relationships.

And i also liked how it was mentioned maybe something is on her mind, such as something concerning her or worrying her. And like said it's up to you to find that out. Because when in situations like that people act different and might try to avoid important people in their lives.

Good luck, I hope your girlfriend isn't showing signs of boredom with you and you're just curious to know what are the signs of relationship boredom.

 

:)
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if you normally talk on the phone and she does not answer as quickly or as often if she used to. If it is a house phone and not a cell phone, her family may say she is not home a lot and she does not call you back.

she tells you she is busy with friends when she never used to be or you used to be invited and now you aren't.

If she does not think you are clever or funny anymore and picks on your jokes and comments. Seems irritated when you talk.

Good luck
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When I get bored of my bfs,

I stop coming around as Much and I might make excuses to not be around him

and I'm more quiet
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She's probably getting bored if she doesn't want to go places with you, or she doesn't interact with you much when you're together. I hope that's not the case :(
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If she seems unenthusiastic whenever she's around you, I would ask her sincerely what was wrong, and if she wouldn't tell you, break up with her, because she obviously isn't into you anymore.
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they wouldn't talk to you as much and they probably wouldn't want to see you as much

sometimes they act like their not bored so they don't hurt you

and when you guys break up and she says "i lost interest" it mostly means she was bored. be aware of that and Don't act like it Wasn't being expected
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