How to ask a girl out over text?

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I like this girl in my class. I want to ask her out. have done for the past couple of weeks but I can't get her alone. her annoying friend sticks to her like glue. She must know I like her because we flirt quite a lot. touching arms, legs. teasing. She says stuff like "Always mean" with a smile.

I'm the sort of person who likes to get to the point but I don't really know what to say.

I'm not asking for "you don't" okay, I know doing it in person is better. I'm not afraid to do it in person. Her friend won't let me. I've asked to talk to her before and her friend wouldn't let me. SO I have to do it over text

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If the phone is the only option, then I would recommend calling her. I assume if you two always flirt anyway then she is expecting it or wants this to happen anyway. A call is much more personal and shows that you care, just start off with a casual conversation that you'd usually have (including the flirty stuff) then ask her out. :)

Edit: Alright, if you absolutely have to do this over text then do the exact same. Startup a conversation, just a simple, "Hello." or whatever else, text back and forth normally, and then just flat out ask her. Girls usually appreciate a guy who will just take control.

As a girl I actually asked my current boyfriend out over the phone because I was too nervous in person and his friends were glued to him, so I understand your situation.
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Look the friend is there as a barrier you have to overcome. If you can't deal with her how are you going to address dealing with her on her own? You are making excuses and the use of texts for things like this, this is the cowards way out. Yes her friend is a grade-A pain but you have to realize the friend is probably very insecure, do you have a friend who'd help you out and allow a double date?

Please don't text go and ask her it isn't difficult, Oh wait why not text to say you'd like to meet her (just her) to ask her something - BUT YOU DO NOT ASK HER BY TEXT!
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Call her! Or text and say something like, " I know it is an *** move to ask you out over text but (insert friend name) is always with you and I really wanted to ask you just one on one." Add some cute stuff here and there and buy her chocolate:)
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Dude alright! if you are going to ask her out over text start a conversation about something she likes, and then start flirting, make it obvious, and then bam ask her out most likely it's going to be a YES so you already are flirting with her. But there is a 50-50 chance she can say no. So be brave and I hope for the best.
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It's better if you at least do it through a phone call. That way you can be more detailed in what you want to say to her and it means way more than just a text.
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When you are with her give her your full attention. Put your phone on mute or do not disturb; don’t talk to others more than her and don’t leave her alone when you’re on a date.

Of course, there are other people in the room but you don’t want their attention, you want hers. If you have an attractive waitress, only look her way briefly when giving your order. You don’t want to be rude to whoever is serving your food, but don’t engage her or acknowledge her beyond what’s necessary. Women pay attention to these things and will appreciate that you don’t have a wandering eye. If you must leave your date’s side for a moment, give her a peck on the cheek before you leave.
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