What are some turn offs?

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girls only.........what are your turn on and turn-offs?

it would also help if you state your age if you wish

I'm a 14year old male.

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Turn ons:

Thoughtfulness

Romantic

Affection

Caring

Politeness

sweetness

humorous

aggressiveness(not overly, though)

confidence(not *********)

strength

playful/flirtatious

Loving

considerate

sexiness

Turn offs:

Abusive(mentally & physically)

Bossy

Jealousy

Aggressiveness(overly is not good for me)

possessive

demanding

Selfishness

inconsiderateness

Liars

guys who don't call( even when u tell them to)

Overprotective(it's only good to one extreme)

Bad Hygiene

Guys with no manners and that aren't gentlemen.

Disrespectful guys

Arrogance

SHYNESS!!

Lazy

Mean/rude guys( basically jerks, assholes)

Obnoxious, immature

Annoying guys
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I'm a 13-year-old girl, and the biggest turn-off for me is bad personal hygiene. If you shower and wear good deodorant and clone that isn't cheep-smelling, then it's all good. Weight also is a turn-off too. How I look at it is if you aren't willing to make an effort to lose weight, then you actually like it and... ewwwww. Turn-on's... funniness, and being caring. Mostly just being a good person. Don't try to act cool, we don't like that. And if you want any DECENT girl (not a slut) then just be kind and don't put other people down... and yeah. That's all.
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TURN-ONS

cute

nice personality

open-minded

considerate

a bit shy (i don't like flirty guys)

TURNOFFS

too confident

bossy

smelly

ugly

bad personality
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I'm 14 too [: if a guy wears the same thing over and over that turns me off a lot if they move too fast and have a lot of girls who is friends. Turn-ons hot skaters who are just living life day to day and guys who care about me and not just how I look.
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I'm 15.

Turn Ons: Blue Eyes, Brown Eyes, Hazel Eyes, HAIR, nice smile, good teeth, smart, humorous, nice butts =], and guys who are just a bit geeky.

Turn Offs: Excessive piercings, baldness, B.O, guys who look skinnier and anorexic girls, guys who are morbidly obese, guys a lot shorter than me, *********, clingy-ness.
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I am 14 too.

Turn Ons;

-cute

-nice

-smart

-polite

-romantic

-sensitive

-thoughtful

-considerate

-knows just what to say

-listens to me

-confident

-not too flirty (doesn't flirt with other girls)

-somewhat athletic

-doesn't move too fast (ex trying to get me to make out with him after 1 week of knowing him)

Turn Offs:

-cocky

-pretends to be dumb to get me to help him

-shows off too much (cute for a little bit, but after a while, it gets annoying!!)

-thinks he's perfect

-obsesses about looks (his and mine)

-jealousy

-over-protectiveness

that's about all I can think of!!  Hope this helps!!
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Well, to tell you the truth...I'm kind of turned on by nerdiness. Not being a total horn-rimmed glasses/ World of Warcraft obsession nerd...but someone who isn't exactly the most popular of guys.

As long as a guy is kind, understands a girl's feelings, and is super funny, he's the perfect guy. ^___^

Hope this helps.
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I'm old, but I remember.

Turn-Ons    Good-looking, smart, nice, clean  (in that order)

         

Turn-offs     Mean, stupid, stinky
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I'm 14. I hate guys who are jerks. I hate guys who aren't themselves. I love guys who do what they like to do, and not care if their friends think it's corny. It's really weird...my boyfriend (he's 16) is into Yu Gi Oh and Lego's, and he is the sweetest guy ever. And he still does that stuff even though his friends aren't all that into it. I find it so cool and it does turn me on.
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