How to get a girlfriend in college?

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from me, a girls point of view, I would say from experience that you should break that shell of yours, go up to a girl and just talk to her, dont be nervous but simply be yourself as confident as you are on the basketball court. If this doesn't work for you then college will. College tends to be the best time to establish your own self. Just because you're shy doesn't mean you won't get a girlfriend. Just be comfortable don't tense up, and know that even if you don't get a girlfriend now, doesn't mean you won't find the right one in the future.

I's okay; you're not doing anything wrong.

If you want some advice, then here goes. Lots of girls like getting to know you before you ask them out. Sure, some guys think that if you're friends with them, you're doomed never to date, but that's not true. All of my best relationships came after I got to know the guy. When you ask them, just be confident and be yourself, because you want a girl who likes you for you. Never change anything for a girl. There will still be some rejections, so be ready for that, but eventually, you'll meet somebody who likes you and will say yes.

hmm get over the looks part cause i mean like seriously if you walk around most places you can notice that a lot of ugly dudes with great personalities are with some of the hottest girls.  I can honestly say that confidence really plays a big part in it, keep clean, good clothes, clean nice looking shoes, keep your face clean from pimples etc, all the easy things you should do do it, have confidence don’t look nervous and do what you do if you can start up a convo keep it going ask about her etc 'confidence confidence'

*honesty--> a girl has to be able to trust you

*respect--> you need to be nice to your lady,, show you care

*love--> love her with all your heart and mean it

*NEVER cheat or flirt with any other girl,, that hurts us

*you should show that you are atleast a little protective

*hold her close when shes cold

*kiss her every second she looks in your eyes and tell her she is beautiful

Good luck hope i helped :)
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Texting is private and intimate. Texting is the perfect way to create a private and intimate world between you and the man or woman in your life.

For women, in particular, texting can end up being a fun “game” where they can do or say anything (even things they would never do in the “real” world). Texting is nonconfrontational. Odds are your relationship ended on a heated note. I don’t know why you and your ex broke up, but there were probably at least one (if not a few dozen) big fights. Done properly (the way I’m going to teach you), texting is simple and subtle. You can slowly feed your ex-tested and proven messages and ideas without the risk of either one of you flying off the handle, falling back into old and destructive patterns, and throwing plates at each other.
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When you are with her give her your full attention. Put your phone on mute or do not disturb; don’t talk to others more than her and don’t leave her alone when you’re on a date.

Of course, there are other people in the room but you don’t want their attention, you want hers. If you have an attractive waitress, only look her way briefly when giving your order. You don’t want to be rude to whoever is serving your food, but don’t engage her or acknowledge her beyond what’s necessary. Women pay attention to these things and will appreciate that you don’t have a wandering eye. If you must leave your date’s side for a moment, give her a peck on the cheek before you leave.
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Be a lesbian

Pretend to be gay and have her turn you straight

Grow a terrible beard

Judge everything that way when you tell her she's pretty she will believe you since you are the master judge of the universe.

Be really loud on week nights
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take an easy college major such as communications or psychology
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look hot yourself and you'll get any girl.
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that shouldn't be your top priority... an education should though..
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