How do you get over guilt of cheating?

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It's a really complicated story...I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. We're both 18.

The past week my boyfriend has been avoiding me. This sort of hurt, because it was right after I gave him a birthday present I thought he'd love. He also was being pretty rough on me over text. Ignoring me, he insulted me, etc. I honestly thought he could

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This is not at all guilty of cheating. This was because you trust and love your boyfriend.

Don't ever feel bad about this. Just be normal with everyone and lead a happy life.

You have not done anything wrong actually which you are not able to recognize yourself.

Don't Worry Dear Everything will go well with you.
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Probably not. Also, realize something, you cheated on someone. That means you aren't the only loose cannon. They are too, and whoever they tell. You run a risk of someone finding out and telling your partner about it. And they'll dump you. And you broke the trust. The guilt doesn't fade with that. And if you act differently around your partner, your partner will notice. Especially is you two were previously intimate, and no
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In my opinion, honesty is always the best thing, even if it hurts someone, it is the best way to get over the guilt, tell your boyfriend the truth especially if you love him. Otherwise, it will come back to haunt you. You cant simply forget about it, it will slowly eat away at you. Just explain to him how bad you feel and how you don't want to lose what you have. If he loves you he will forgive you, but handling your relationship will depend on
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So, you want to pretend you're a nice cheating SL*t.

Sorry, no smart person will ever believe that you feel guilty over it.
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if you really feel that bad about yourself it's better that you share it with your boyfriend. make sure that he listens to you and that you mention all the time that you didn't even like that guy but you felt kind of abandoned so you had sex with that guy. explain to him that it was just once and just tell him that you love him(if you do) and that you wanna stay with him(if you want)
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You must recognize that you were neither married nor engaged at the time. Time will heal your feelings of guilt.
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Yeah, break it off and keep doing your thing cause obviously being in a relationship isn't for you.
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Cheating is a serious thing, you don't deserve him.
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sh*ts can happen just hide it from him. what you did was totally wrong. but it comes out from vexation. as for revenge... u still young to think twice b4 you do the thing I know all that u did was to hurt him... as u never knew what was in his mind. but. your bf wants to accept what u did. and he won't understand it. so i prefer just hid it and keep it for a good time to tell him.
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