when my ex left me I imagined it was because i wasn't as pretty as her, or smart, I imagined it was all my fault, it took its toll on my ego and self-worth. when someone leaves us for someone else all kinds of things go through our heads, irrational stuff. we give them all this power, but in reality, we should never base our self-worth on if we get dumped. because things always happen for a reason, god's will is best, because he can see behind it all, he can see the future and we can't. when we are dumped, it inflicts a special kind of wound on our ego,
where we compare ourselves to the other woman, blame it on maybe there was something the matter with us, but in reality, there was really something wrong with the person we were with. sometimes things end because something much better is right around the corner for us. just trust in the universe that it knows what u need and that this person would only have hurt u badly had u stayed with him. it's not about u, it's him. You're the lucky one having gotten rid of a bad egg before u married him. there is no use asking why, as there is really no clear answer.